Lawrence (Lawry) Dolph
HOME 1963 - LOOKING BACK NEWSLETTERS MISSING CLASSMATES IN MEMORY SCHOOL SONGS CONTACT US 1962 STATE FOOTBALL CHAMPS CONFIDENTIALITY POLICY PROFILES ANNUAL EVENT 2010 ANNUAL EVENT 2011 ANNUAL EVENT 2012 MEETING MINUTES & TREASURERS' REPORTS HOW CAN I HELP? WASHINGTON CLUB PHOTO MICHIGAN THEATER PHOTOSIt is an obscure but not insignificant fact that when I went to see Nick Schreiber in
the winter of our senior year to propose that Ann Arbor High inaugurate a fencing
team and enter the state championships, our principal immediately named
Howard Patthoff as coach. A couple of months later, Ann Arbor beat out the big
money Detroit prep schools to win the team championship that had been theirs
for decades, and I was lucky enough to become the state foil champion because
I was lucky enough to attend Ann Arbor High.
That same day, my Dad drove me to the Monroe Track Relays, an annual
gathering of 30 Class A schools, and I ran the first leg of the mile relay, handing
off the baton in first place and our ace Scott Hunter brought it home. I owe that to
Tim Ryan, Don McEwen and John Nordlinger. I have never met better coaches,
by which I mean people who could pull talent out of regular guys and make them
believe in themselves. Thanks to them, I know I was not the only guy from AAHS
who would later fear that he was getting out of shape during Army training.
At the University of Wisconsin, I was a walk-on for both the track and fencing
teams. I chose fencing, then still a Big Ten sport, and served as lead saber
fencer when we won the Big Ten in 1967. I kept up my running by training with
the guy who was indoor and outdoor Big Ten champion in the quarter mile for
two consecutive years.
It was the spring of 1968 that the war came to many us. On June 3, 1968, we
classmates at AAHS met in the bus station and were transported to Fort Wayne
to be inducted.
Combat was a bewildering and intense experience in 1969. We took more
causalities than any other year of the war but hit back with unbelievable
firepower. We had the North Vietnamese on the ropes, ready to quit, when to
their astonishment Nixon began to plead for an honorable withdrawal.
If you could type you might be named company clerk. I could write, thanks again
to AAHS, and when the Army discovered this they pulled me from night ambush
patrol, with our nightly 20 percent casualty rates, and decreed that I was an Army
News Correspondent. The night before my transfer, my unit had been caught on
open ground in a three-way ambush. I channeled Messers Ryan, McEwen and
Nordlinger, while carrying the bulky radio and long antenna, and outran their
machine guns to the ditch from which we made our stand. My subsequent news
dispatches were published around the world, and I got to walk the major media
through the Mekong Delta. I discovered there were three stories in Vietnam: 1)
what the Army said was happening; 2) what the media said was happening; and
3) what was happening.
Upon completion of my service, I ignored an invitation from the Wall Street
Journal and returned to Ann Arbor to become editor of a broken down weekly
shopper, the Huron Valley Advisor. Being editor meant that I had an absolutely
free hand at investigating county and city government, the schools, and a
number of companies that were dumping toxic substances into the Huron River
and surrounding lakes.
I moved on to become a proud business partner with our classmate and reunion
organizer Mary Lou Slater in a start up advertising agency. When I wrote an ad
one way, our client’s store filled with people the next day and we were paid.
When I wrote the ad another way, no one came to the store and we didn’t get
paid. I learned a lesson in advertising that I later found had eluded others.
I married a lovely woman Lynn Nybell who grew up first in Youngstown and then
Columbus, Ohio, so she was both tough and smart. Lynn became tenured at
Eastern Michigan University on her Master’s Degree and we had a girl and a boy.
Then Lynn aced the University of Michigan graduate record examination at the
age of 40 and won a Regent’s Scholarship, which funded her PhD in a combined
anthropology-social work program. I am in her debt, not only for all of the love
and sweetness she has given me and our children, but also for her unique ability
to help make me sound smarter at critical moments than I am.
Mad Men was in full swing when I arrived at the big agencies, with their billion
dollar billings, and I never saw an agency without an open bar. I was painfully
aware that many of our fathers smoked and drank too much. AAHS coach Tim
Ryan was the first man I ever saw who was truly fit well into his 60s. (Today, that
would be our classmate Ted Fraumann.) Inspired, I ran eight miles and swam a
mile on alternate days. Pretty soon, many of the staff across the agency were
running and swimming with me.
At Campbell-Ewald, we did the original Heartbeat of America campaign for
Chevrolet cars, while my colleagues had the good sense to recruit our classmate
Bob Seger to perform Like A Rock in an ad campaign for Chevrolet trucks.
Heartbeat became the most award-winning ad campaign in history, but I always
thought that Seger made the truck campaign better than ours.
I launched my consulting career in 1989, becoming one of the first of a wave of
professionals working out of home offices, enabled by MAC computers, fax
machines and modems. In 1991, I opened my sunroof while driving east on M-14
at eighty, held my brick-sized cell phone in the wind stream and sent a fax from
my laptop. We had become, each of us, James Bond in real life technology. Look
at us now, shooting video and stills and posting, texting and tweeting from our
smart phones.
I retired in 2002 as my daughter was graduating from Grinnell College, ready I
thought for the peaceful life. I took those trips I had been looking forward to and
wrote a 100,000-word novel. I didn’t like the opening 40 pages, tried to fix them
and got too close to be effective. Needing a distraction, I called a meeting and
found myself starting a consulting firm that specializes in turning around failing
companies without letting people go. That was ten years ago. I love the work.
The novel remains incomplete and unpublished.
Meanwhile, my son has graduated from Wayne State as a jazz keyboardist. He
teaches piano to the children of Rochester and Grosse Pointe and has just
written, directed and produced a mix tape of Detroit’s leading Rappers. My
daughter has a PhD in water resource management from the University of
Minnesota, a terrific husband and a daughter of her own. My wife is the Director
of the School of Social Work at Eastern Michigan University. Me? I hope to keep
working for a while.
I have remained in touch with so many of my classmates, not the least of whom
are Peter Dodge, Jim Benton, Russ DeJong, Trish Shirley, John Shoemaker, and
Mary Lou (Slater) Covert. I want to thank Rick Weid and the reunion committee
for bringing us all together once again. I can say with all sincerity that I would not
have enjoyed life as much had I not gone to Ann Arbor High and benefited from
all of the wonderful people who were there. Nor would I have been able, during
those future moments when it would be most important, to run like the wind.
Vietnam 1969 and the Alaska Highway in 2009